Tired
eyes are awaken to a dark room, hazy rays like orange melody illumes and the
pain of the past no longer fades but like your potent head-ache, it comes crashing
back at you. In the quick second of realizing that you can't force 'the
twilight zone' and it wasn't all a dream… Actually, reality just hit your
behind! You're Single, again!
Some
way to pop your bubble of isolation but some body had to do it. Matter of fact,
you're stronger than you make yourself out to be and he isn't worth going
delusional over.
Enough
of the pity party ladies, being single isn't a crime so stop looking
unfailingly ready for a mug shot. If you are such a wreck when you're single, I
advise that you stay single for a while. It's time to redefine who you are and
build the character of an Irreplaceable and Irresistible woman. Ladies, I
believe the 'I's have it, no pun intended. My use of those words are purposeful
to exhibit first, what being a woman is really about and second, to project the
infallible power women possess. You see, being a woman goes beyond the rise of
our breasts and the protrusion of our booty. It's a mystifying tact that men
will never understand if such power is used the right way. Until you realize
that you are One with in yourself and by yourself, you will be forever giving
off the wrong energies.
Women
may say that they love themselves but is that reflected by time spent with self
to think peacefully, set a standard and work towards building an attitude that
is electrifying and magnetic at the same time? Ladies, there must be maximum
enjoyment with self before wanting to
acquire the company of a mate. Instead of carrying around the check-list of
what our parents pronounced to us; such as being outstanding in school, getting
a respectable job, get married and raise a family but rather, we must
concentrate on what we truly want. I might come across rebellious but in the
case where mothers failed to show and teach true independence and audacity, the
task is on us to learn it.
Being
an irreplaceable woman, in no way defines being a man's doormat or his servant.
In the complete contrary, it means to have self-respect, gain his respect,
reveal exemplary character, be unforgettable in thought and deed and finally to
be a challenge. Crucial to such assets, is the bold concept that you do not
need a man to make you happy. He is as God created him; rib of our rib, help
mate to us as we are to him and head of the home in thoughts, ideas and plans
but not above us to trample on our reasoning, dismiss our desires and abuse our
bodies, but beside us in companionship.
Why
do women look at magazines with images of women in spas, on vacations, at the
gym and shopping and say, "I wish that was me". Exonerate yourselves
from that kind of thinking and do it! Those very things are what I mean by self
love and time spent with self, they are vital in enhancing your attitude for
magnetizing the right male attraction. Even if you can't afford a spa day or a
vacation at this time, get your nails done or get a pedicure and have a glass
of wine… Activities like these shape us emotionally and changes our
perspectives in redefining who we are and in turn, realizing what we really
want. Sometimes we deny ourselves the pleasure and wrongfully find solace in a
boy and not a man and label him "boyfriend". That is exactly what I
call 'sad impulsive behavior' and it should be banned. Ladies, the only way we
are going to shape 'big boys' into grown men is to simply set standards! It's
time we let guys with their pants below their butts and dazzling earrings know
that we're not interested in a 'gangster hippy' who always appears to have an
urgent need to pee.
Forgive
my bluntness and back to the topic at hand, I didn't mean to indentify why guys
like that should be single. The irreplaceable and irresistible you, deserves
better! Speaking of irresistible, it is important to be honest and ask yourself
if you are irresistible. This is hard for some women because they are trapped
in serious denial. In case you forgot, men go after what they see. It's true
that first impressions last but first impressions becomes easily forgotten if
you've lost the 'WOW factor'. It's important to look good always… not for a man
but for you. Looking good is not effective unless you have confidence, it's key
in making your statement so that the power with in us comes out without
uttering a word. The bonus point to all of that though, is to know your worth.
If he can get the milk for free, he will never have a reason to buy the whole
cow. That saying is often heard but very seldom done and because of that, women
have made themselves conquered projects or the beaten video game level then on
to the NEXT. Allowing a man to sample the cookie, acting out gymnastics in bed
and going down on him will not keep him. If a man wants to cheat- he will.
Being
visually teasing, mentally challenging by being admirably forthright and
emotionally captivating makes us, Irresistible! Ladies, you have no right to
not enjoy your singleness as it is a time to have undivided time with self. You
are your best investment and it's important when you see the effectiveness of your
own change.
Written
by:
Drishna Gibson
Drishna Gibson
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