The day most couples have been anticipating is here and the rush hour is going to last the entire day. I usually refer to Valentines Day as the 'pre-launch to spring', people seem to have a hop in their step and there are flowers everywhere. What's sickening, is that single men and women, are despairing over not being with someone so they can at least receive a box of chocolates. There is nothing more disturbing to me. Valentines does not make a relationship nor is it a tool to make love an accessory. Suffice to say, that not every smiling face carries a happy heart and not every gift received, proves a meaningful relationship.