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Ladies want to know; Why do men cheat on or mistreat a good wife?

It's undeniable, that all women have been associated with men who cheat or an unfaithful mate. Partially looking away from the subject, would reward us with the intricacies and reasons behind this popular behavior. I was moved to write on such a topic by the response of some of my female readers. I sought to look beyond their request, for just the purpose of curiosity but rather, the substantial hurt they feel from being put through such a situation repeatedly. After all, we are human, we can only take so much and we do get sick and tired of it all. Though I understand the female emotions behind it, note that it's not only men who cheat. My focus would not only surround the reasons why men cheat but also to help us all better analyze what is cheating. Ladies, you just might be confronted by your own zombie, realizing that you too, cheat.

Quit walking around with a chip on your shoulder; don't expect what you don't give, to yourself.

In life, there are many ways to be happy. Many would proclaim happiness by doing what they love or even attending a party and having a few drinks or more but what is true happiness? Today's article, is inspired by a couple who undoubtedly love each other yet they're living a frustrated life, for the simple reason of 'lack of balance'. Hard to question right?  I too, pondered in trying to figure out the main issue. I figured out so many things from analyzing both sides of the story but I refused to give credit to any of the reasons given. I found it quite strange, that I didn't go ahead in sorting out the issue by offering the solution of 'fighting for love'. Of course I never believe in exhausting that cliche nor am I a believer in sugar coating anything but rather, I wish to offer a more selfless and selfish approach. Furthermore, I wish to highlight that the key to life is balance and it must begin with one's self, before it is extended to any othe...