Phenomenal Point of Views by Drishna.

The universal practice of having an outside lover, seems to be the trending lifestyle. Boy toys have moved from cars and gadgets to women. Arguably so, some women seem to enjoy the new attention and clearly work hard in keeping all eyes on 'the booty-call' but what really is the importance of 'the other woman'? I want to take a realistic look at this trend and why it's the new common cold, just for men.  I've seen it all and it doesn't take a married woman only, to testify of an unfaithful mate. Not lashing out on the fellas here because some women do enjoy an extra 'side' but my individual opinion stands resolute on a monopoly. However, I'd keep my own emotions at bay and do my best in revealing the all time truth about the luxury of the outside package.

The teenagers of today are our world's future but are we shaping them the right way, to produce a better tomorrow? It's been long time coming, as my passion for youth is a deep one and my thoughts are at most times sorrowful, when I consider the trending patterns of our young people. I'm not that old myself but I'm old enough to compare and contrast, the various differences between my teen years and now. It's fitting to say here and now, that if it was not for my mother's impactful guidance, I would have definitely been a part of the 'statistic'. Thankfully, I've been exonerated from the 'failed teenager' numbers and in so doing, I hope to educate a lot of parents and children (because teenagers are children) about creating an individual of substance, effectively changing the perspectives of our world. 

A topic such as this one, has never gotten so many twists to the 'tale', as it did this past week. Comments were thrown from all different directions from both my male and female readers. Some, I agreed with and others surely put some things into perspective, as to where a lot of people's minds are concerned. Despite such evaluation, I couldn't neglect the fact that this 'buzz' needed a part two. Irrefutably, withholding sex from your spouse for over a month, got a resounding "No."

A husband and wife's most rapturous connection, is their ability to intimately romance each other, through the body's most powerful expertise to communicate by connecting as One. Unfortunately and believe it or not, almost 85% of marital problems begin in the bedroom and it takes more than persistence to make it over these hurdles. Though problems in marriages may vary, crucial importance must be given to communication because we must all desire to have our spouse attain perfect understanding about our feelings. I recently accommodated one of my ardent readers who, requested advice on this very sexually frustrating topic. Fully assessing his situation, definitely spurred the open avenue of realizing that  a lot marriages are suffering. Not only in the aspect of bedroom matters but heavily weighing on the things couples say and more so - don't say.

It's undeniable, that all women have been associated with men who cheat or an unfaithful mate. Partially looking away from the subject, would reward us with the intricacies and reasons behind this popular behavior. I was moved to write on such a topic by the response of some of my female readers. I sought to look beyond their request, for just the purpose of curiosity but rather, the substantial hurt they feel from being put through such a situation repeatedly. After all, we are human, we can only take so much and we do get sick and tired of it all. Though I understand the female emotions behind it, note that it's not only men who cheat. My focus would not only surround the reasons why men cheat but also to help us all better analyze what is cheating. Ladies, you just might be confronted by your own zombie, realizing that you too, cheat.

Your interests are peaked, I bet but trust me, this is going to be the ride of your life and it's definitely not rated PG13. I could not help but address this topic which seems to be a growing popularity among not only straight, dating couples but also straight, married couples too. Indeed, this was not an easy choice to make because for some reason, the past week provided a wide variety of topics in which to write. This topped the list because I was shocked to know that the practice is creeping up in a lot of marriages and more so, done by couples of appalling ages. If it surprises you any further- you should know that it's the new 'in thing' in the sex world, at least that is exactly what my research tells me.

In life, there are many ways to be happy. Many would proclaim happiness by doing what they love or even attending a party and having a few drinks or more but what is true happiness? Today's article, is inspired by a couple who undoubtedly love each other yet they're living a frustrated life, for the simple reason of 'lack of balance'. Hard to question right?  I too, pondered in trying to figure out the main issue. I figured out so many things from analyzing both sides of the story but I refused to give credit to any of the reasons given. I found it quite strange, that I didn't go ahead in sorting out the issue by offering the solution of 'fighting for love'. Of course I never believe in exhausting that cliche nor am I a believer in sugar coating anything but rather, I wish to offer a more selfless and selfish approach. Furthermore, I wish to highlight that the key to life is balance and it must begin with one's self, before it is extended to any othe...