Phenomenal Point of Views by Drishna.

A husband and wife's most rapturous connection, is their ability to intimately romance each other, through the body's most powerful expertise to communicate by connecting as One. Unfortunately and believe it or not, almost 85% of marital problems begin in the bedroom and it takes more than persistence to make it over these hurdles. Though problems in marriages may vary, crucial importance must be given to communication because we must all desire to have our spouse attain perfect understanding about our feelings. I recently accommodated one of my ardent readers who, requested advice on this very sexually frustrating topic. Fully assessing his situation, definitely spurred the open avenue of realizing that  a lot marriages are suffering. Not only in the aspect of bedroom matters but heavily weighing on the things couples say and more so - don't say.

It's undeniable, that all women have been associated with men who cheat or an unfaithful mate. Partially looking away from the subject, would reward us with the intricacies and reasons behind this popular behavior. I was moved to write on such a topic by the response of some of my female readers. I sought to look beyond their request, for just the purpose of curiosity but rather, the substantial hurt they feel from being put through such a situation repeatedly. After all, we are human, we can only take so much and we do get sick and tired of it all. Though I understand the female emotions behind it, note that it's not only men who cheat. My focus would not only surround the reasons why men cheat but also to help us all better analyze what is cheating. Ladies, you just might be confronted by your own zombie, realizing that you too, cheat.

Your interests are peaked, I bet but trust me, this is going to be the ride of your life and it's definitely not rated PG13. I could not help but address this topic which seems to be a growing popularity among not only straight, dating couples but also straight, married couples too. Indeed, this was not an easy choice to make because for some reason, the past week provided a wide variety of topics in which to write. This topped the list because I was shocked to know that the practice is creeping up in a lot of marriages and more so, done by couples of appalling ages. If it surprises you any further- you should know that it's the new 'in thing' in the sex world, at least that is exactly what my research tells me.

In life, there are many ways to be happy. Many would proclaim happiness by doing what they love or even attending a party and having a few drinks or more but what is true happiness? Today's article, is inspired by a couple who undoubtedly love each other yet they're living a frustrated life, for the simple reason of 'lack of balance'. Hard to question right?  I too, pondered in trying to figure out the main issue. I figured out so many things from analyzing both sides of the story but I refused to give credit to any of the reasons given. I found it quite strange, that I didn't go ahead in sorting out the issue by offering the solution of 'fighting for love'. Of course I never believe in exhausting that cliche nor am I a believer in sugar coating anything but rather, I wish to offer a more selfless and selfish approach. Furthermore, I wish to highlight that the key to life is balance and it must begin with one's self, before it is extended to any othe...

Troubling subject, I know  but it definitely needs handling. I could not help raising the issue, of what seems to be 'the best kept secret' in some marriages, however minimal the numbers maybe. Realistic figures will show that this accounts for at least 10% of marriages and in my opinion, that's just too darn high! Furthermore, I would just like to make it clear that am not a 'homosexual hater', I just hate the act and just as every homosexual is aware, it is definitely not of God. I have heard the stories and known a few people who got trapped in this situation and trust me, pity does not describe the way I felt when I got the reports. My heart went out to the women who gave their hearts selflessly and committed themselves completely to men they love. Then, I felt even more woeful toward the men who are supposed to be men, to man up and tell the women who they led on, that they're gay before the marriage actually happened.  Clearly that's a bit much to...

Not to fear gentlemen - this article only seeks to be balanced because clearly too many people, fail to think before they act. I will like to preface this article by making it known that I am in no way against men being alpha- males or women being independent. My goal is only to help us create the type of balance, essential to every relationship to avoid misunderstanding caused by un-necessary 'battle of the sexes'.

As my blogs are written to stir opinions and activate hot topics. Today's blog was written from thoughts triggered by one of my readers who commented. What's even sweeter, it was a man's opinion and I agreed with every word he said. While it may be good to point out the wrongs of our men and criticize them for those things, ladies don't you forget that we too, can be at fault. The important thing here is to strike a balance and to obviously, be fair. In my humblest slant, a woman who can admit her wrongs, improves upon them and nurtures things which contribute to her relationship, is exactly the type of woman who receives companionship.