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Overcoming Infidelity II

No matter where you live in this world, someone on your street or on your job is being unfaithful. You may wonder what's the basis on which I make such a bold statement but if you look deep enough, you'll discover that I am right. I know that's a tough reality to face; it even makes you wonder about your own relationship. However, this article is not intended to insight fear but rather, equip our minds with sound thoughts when dealing with an unfaithful spouse or if you're the one doing the cheating.
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Are Men Irreplaceable?

Being that this is a tedious subject, I advise that all men reading this post, should not do so defensively. I've listened to the opinions of my friends (both male and female) on this matter so I've decided to share my perspective with the world. I recon that we all have an appreciation for the diverseness of our human species. No matter our race, size, the colour of our eyes, our status, our abilities and inabilities; as we'll say in my country, "every pot has their spoon". Though women have become verse in many ways, can we live with forfeiting a man's touch in our bedroom?

Overcoming infidelity

If you possessed the ability to freeze time, what's the first thing you'd do? I'm sure the answer to that question will never be the same because in this journey of life, our intentions are like musical combustion. However, in the area of relationships, all of us might agree, that all we want is a faithful and loving partner. Though infidelity can cause heartache, I see it as the adventure of life. Many would say that being faithful is much easier than the task of cheating and although I am in full agreement with that reasoning, I wish to explore the cause of infidelity. Is it the thrill? Is it a phase? Is it a never ending quest for something new? Or, is it an insurance for inadequacies? I would say it's a combination of all of those things. You see, women and men are very much alike in the excitement for something shiny and new. Women are just as exposed to the opportunity of male indulgence the very same way, a lady will catch the eye of a man. What if I sugges...

Seven Tips for experiencing your Best Twenties.

It is my understanding, that every person in their childhood years would usually fantasize about reaching adulthood. Of course, half of us were not prepared for what was about to hit us and as a result, ended up being bitter adults with false pretence and some how feeling robbed. The following tips are what I hope to be a "reset button" and also a starting manual for many teenagers across the world. B elieve in your Individuality - During the course of life, its easy to compare our journey with that of our friends and relatives. The process might be thrilling as though we're on a race track and on a race track, there can only be one winner so let's look at ourselves differently. Realize that you're unique and appreciate the fact that your journey will be different than others, because your destinations are not the same. W ork on becoming your best Self - When we look in the mirror, there is always a spectacle on our body we'd like to chan...

On the road to Infidelity

In the world we live, people from all aspects of life desire to build relationships, and some how feel content, knowing that they share the intimate parts of their life with someone. That may sound all well and fine but just how content, is too content? I couldn't help but ask that question whilst observing a few relationships around me. I mean, it's never a great feeling realizing after your partner has been unfaithful, that you might have actually pushed them there. I'll state categorically that cheating is in no way excusable or a right practice. It is my view, that if an individual is interested in someone outside of the relationship sexually or otherwise, they should break the present relationship before beginning another. Sounds fair right? Oh but the

Relationship Dilemmas Untold.

As children, we chanted; "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me". Far from the truth, right? Our journey into adulthood taught us all too well, about the power of words and how much they can hurt. However, though we may understand words and their power, there seems to be a glitch in communicating certain things within the realm of relationships. I don't wish to address things on a communication level but rather our actions and perceptions regarding the dating practice. We all know that there's no "perfect" relationship or marriage, and thinking that you can have a perfect one, means that you are grossly delusional. Permit me to get blunt and share some of things you may never see coming in a relationship.

Allow your man to be The Man.

It's my strong belief that people should create the life they want. However, there are a few spectacles in life where such advice should not be applied. When it pertains to the male species, our approach must be different and sensitive to gather accurate information. You see, our careers, fashion sense, fiscal abilities and communication practices are all shaped by what we desire them to be but what's impossible, is