Are Men Irreplaceable?

Being that this is a tedious subject, I advise that all men reading this post, should not do so defensively. I've listened to the opinions of my friends (both male and female) on this matter so I've decided to share my perspective with the world. I recon that we all have an appreciation for the diverseness of our human species. No matter our race, size, the colour of our eyes, our status, our abilities and inabilities; as we'll say in my country, "every pot has their spoon". Though women have become verse in many ways, can we live with forfeiting a man's touch in our bedroom?

Guess what, men have their use. There are things they can do that we just don't have the strength or energy to do but between the sheets, things are questionable. A few days ago, I kept scrolling past a rather disturbing video on Social Media concerning a Pastor who preached a thought provoking sermon, where he stated that Dildos are idols and therefore that makes them sinful. Now I don't have a problem with what a Pastor decides to preach so that's not my issue. However, I took issue with his attempt to start a "movement" against dildos which seemed so personal to him. Now I'm not making a connotation that the man's wife might own a dildo or might be considering to bring one into their bedroom but are men objecting to the use of dildos because they feel threatened?

Some might say, "Threatened for what? Sex toys can not replace the skin to skin feel of a man's body". That is absolutely true because sex toys don't move on their own and they're made to heighten sensitivity on various points of our bodies. As one of my male friends asked, "Can a dildo caress your body"? We all know the answer to that but Ladies, are those things essential for us in the bedroom? Of course, the answers will differ because not all women want the same things during sex but what we all want, is an Orgasm.

I don't think an orgasm is too much to ask for, after all, what's the point of having sex? What's difficult about what we all want Ladies, is that not all men can or know how to bring us to our orgasm. I know most of you men reading this must  be saying, "I don't have that problem, I've got my woman crying out my name and grabbing the sheets every time we're doing the deed". Really Fellas? What are the odds that she's faking it because you're non effective and she'd rather get other stuff done? Men, you are great at pretending and telling us what we want to hear, just to get our clothes off but you fail to realize that women are even better at acting. The Red Carpet doesn't have enough room for us women because we all deserve a Grammy Award every year. When we have to be faking orgasms all of the time, it's frustrating and we have to act - literally.

This is exactly when men become irreplaceable. Women are driven to weigh the Pros and Cons of your use and that's where she places her sexual needs as number One. A woman knows that sex toys are a guaranteed orgasm so  her choice is split between a dildo or another man, while her mate improves on his technique at getting her to the top of the Eifel Tower. Some men may think that using a dildo is cheating too but it's not. Sex toys aren't Human, remember? That is just skimming the surface of this issue but I've decided to leave the real meat for another post.

Contrary to what people think, we live in a very sexually frustrated society. We are open minded but we fear the looks or persecution we'd get for being sexually expressive at letting men know that they're failing us miserably in the bedroom. If you ask most men, they will all tell you that they all want doggy- style sex from their girl friends or wives. Well guess what Fellas... We all want orgasms and more than One!

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Drishna Gibson.

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