Phenomenal Point of Views by Drishna.

Your interests are peaked, I bet but trust me, this is going to be the ride of your life and it's definitely not rated PG13. I could not help but address this topic which seems to be a growing popularity among not only straight, dating couples but also straight, married couples too. Indeed, this was not an easy choice to make because for some reason, the past week provided a wide variety of topics in which to write. This topped the list because I was shocked to know that the practice is creeping up in a lot of marriages and more so, done by couples of appalling ages. If it surprises you any further- you should know that it's the new 'in thing' in the sex world, at least that is exactly what my research tells me.

In life, there are many ways to be happy. Many would proclaim happiness by doing what they love or even attending a party and having a few drinks or more but what is true happiness? Today's article, is inspired by a couple who undoubtedly love each other yet they're living a frustrated life, for the simple reason of 'lack of balance'. Hard to question right?  I too, pondered in trying to figure out the main issue. I figured out so many things from analyzing both sides of the story but I refused to give credit to any of the reasons given. I found it quite strange, that I didn't go ahead in sorting out the issue by offering the solution of 'fighting for love'. Of course I never believe in exhausting that cliche nor am I a believer in sugar coating anything but rather, I wish to offer a more selfless and selfish approach. Furthermore, I wish to highlight that the key to life is balance and it must begin with one's self, before it is extended to any othe...

Troubling subject, I know  but it definitely needs handling. I could not help raising the issue, of what seems to be 'the best kept secret' in some marriages, however minimal the numbers maybe. Realistic figures will show that this accounts for at least 10% of marriages and in my opinion, that's just too darn high! Furthermore, I would just like to make it clear that am not a 'homosexual hater', I just hate the act and just as every homosexual is aware, it is definitely not of God. I have heard the stories and known a few people who got trapped in this situation and trust me, pity does not describe the way I felt when I got the reports. My heart went out to the women who gave their hearts selflessly and committed themselves completely to men they love. Then, I felt even more woeful toward the men who are supposed to be men, to man up and tell the women who they led on, that they're gay before the marriage actually happened.  Clearly that's a bit much to...

Not to fear gentlemen - this article only seeks to be balanced because clearly too many people, fail to think before they act. I will like to preface this article by making it known that I am in no way against men being alpha- males or women being independent. My goal is only to help us create the type of balance, essential to every relationship to avoid misunderstanding caused by un-necessary 'battle of the sexes'.