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Being comfortable with One’s Sexuality; building Confidence by its Expression.

Safe evaluation has made it apparent that the world around us is sexually stifled. Men and women are walking around with the silent issue of their own sexual frustration. One may ask, “How can that be possible?” I understand your confusion, given the free accessibility to pornography and the way it’s transforming today’s society but such assumptions are deathly wrong. Frankly, being aware of the different ways intercourse is practiced and enjoying its entertainment in no way, denotes our sexuality. Matter of fact, I wish to take you on a journey to discover your very own sexuality, shockingly by embracing every part of your being in the mirror!

Of course, every day we look in our mirrors just to ensure that our appearance is presentable to the world and not even 10 seconds, are spent giving attention to inward feeling. No… this is not going to be Yoga class but rather a naked look at ourselves- Literally! The question must be asked here - Why have we neglected the duty of embracing our naked body’s form, shape and unique appeal? Every individual will have different answers I’m sure, especially in separate cases of men and women but we all meet in one place when it comes to the criticisms and non-acceptance we pronounce to ourselves. Such behaviors have adversely affected relationships, marriages and dare I say- our Countenance. Harsh but true because we’ve modeled ourselves to what we think is desired by the opposite sex and even what we see on covers of magazines and if I must go further, the very same thriving pornography industry.

Don’t get me wrong, aspiring for outward self improvement is great but the change will never go more than skin-deep unless, we literally spend naked time in the mirror. Men may frown on this but they are just as insecure about their bodies as women. Not until time is spent face to face with ourselves to question what do we love and hate about a particular part of our bodies and even to touch the area to ignite a sensation or discover new ones, then we will begin understanding our sexuality. Simply put, our timidness to communicate our fantasies for fear that we’d be seen as ‘weird’, has conquered our true personality. Quite frankly it is called being ‘Sexually-Adventurous’ and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Furthermore, I recommend that every adult embrace such attributes for the purpose of standing out in a sexually evolving world which makes or breaks the happiness of humanity.
Honestly, our opinion of this activity may differ but they can be attributed to the way we were socialized as children. Whether it was thought to be vain to stare at our image, to do deep soul searching and smile at our reflection or it could have been a religious foe to go deeper in that reflection to figure out our yearning; to desire an intense sexual experience the exact way we picture it and want it. The majority of the masses are confronted by this issue and therefore suffer for it in an inexpressive adult life hence the reason for the many inferior complex mascots around us.

It is never too late to greet the mirror and truly think about what we desire in our thoughts, actions and magnetism. Acceptance of inward desire results in the embracing of outward assets and its Power to do enumerable things. By that force and sequence only, can we project Confidence sweetly accessorized by Expression.


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Drishna Gibson
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