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On the road to Infidelity

In the world we live, people from all aspects of life desire to build relationships, and some how feel content, knowing that they share the intimate parts of their life with someone. That may sound all well and fine but just how content, is too content? I couldn't help but ask that question whilst observing a few relationships around me. I mean, it's never a great feeling realizing after your partner has been unfaithful, that you might have actually pushed them there. I'll state categorically that cheating is in no way excusable or a right practice. It is my view, that if an individual is interested in someone outside of the relationship sexually or otherwise, they should break the present relationship before beginning another. Sounds fair right? Oh but the

Relationship Dilemmas Untold.

As children, we chanted; "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me". Far from the truth, right? Our journey into adulthood taught us all too well, about the power of words and how much they can hurt. However, though we may understand words and their power, there seems to be a glitch in communicating certain things within the realm of relationships. I don't wish to address things on a communication level but rather our actions and perceptions regarding the dating practice. We all know that there's no "perfect" relationship or marriage, and thinking that you can have a perfect one, means that you are grossly delusional. Permit me to get blunt and share some of things you may never see coming in a relationship.

Allow your man to be The Man.

It's my strong belief that people should create the life they want. However, there are a few spectacles in life where such advice should not be applied. When it pertains to the male species, our approach must be different and sensitive to gather accurate information. You see, our careers, fashion sense, fiscal abilities and communication practices are all shaped by what we desire them to be but what's impossible, is

2017 is not a year to waste Time

Whether we believe or not; a moment lost can not be regained. If life had a rewind button, many people would gladly return to their past and undo some things. However, the reality is that the law of time does not allow for that sort of thing and our only hope is to strive for making better choices. Though the responsibility to make better choices gives us immense power; are we using it? I wish to take you through a mental time lapse of what potential your 2017 could have if you use your power well. I won't stray too far from my niche of writing about relationships. I'd first like to tackle the responsibility we hold to grant ourselves the happiness we wish for. Being a young business woman myself, I've had the opportunity to meet and socialize with dozens of people my age and a little older, from various backgrounds. No matter how diverse we may be, we all have one thing in common- goals. What's even more intriguing is how we would all go about achieving these go...