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Some where you've never been before...

It is well known that in our youngest stage of life, we fear nothing, and as we grow and become less ignorant to the facts and patterns of life; our personalities are shaped. In this article I wish to expound a bit on the mind and heart that is programmed to only process the things which "preserves" us. Although self preservation is applaudable, there are some other things that are more than what meets the eye. Rest assured, I would not bombard you with psychological findings or terms but rather, sharpen our vision in realizing the behaviors of the people we love and communicate with daily. The dating pool is said to be flooded with opposites. We often say that opposites attract and while that may be very true, we must ask ourselves; Do I know who I'm dating? You see, it's easy to be swept off of our feet by what we 'think' is love when in fact, we haven't yet discovered the person we profess to 'love'. Evidently, it's common pract...

Is it wise to be friends with your Ex?

After posting my last blog, I received a couple emails from readers asking for advice pertaining to dealing with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend and moving on from that sort of attachment. Honestly, it baffled me to see how many people really do struggle with break- ups. Looking back on my past articles, I realised that I've written quite a bit on making relationships work and embracing your singleness, and not very much about break-ups. It's apparent that people have a genuine problem with getting over relationships, and some how assume that the best remedy is to maintain a friendship with the person you've been in love with. Obviously, everyone would have their opinion about this but I'm about to open your scope a bit because when you've been there and done that, it's damn time to move on.