The old chant says "First comes love then comes marriage, and then comes the baby in a baby carriage" . This childish banter still exists but it's becoming clearer to me, that some people take it into Adulthood and marriage is seen as just that - "Marriage" and then the rest. It is no lie that marriage isn't easy and although difficulties will arise from time to time, we must understand when and how to revive the relationship. A marriage will face the battle of financial stress, infidelity, lies and abuse but after determining the desire to stay together, it takes resilience to save a marriage. Of course, counselling is always advised but after you leave the Marriage Counselor, then what? After gathering information over time, many things stood out to me as to why we have so many failed marriages and unhappy unions. A general overview shows that a lot of couples have lost their desire to put effort into the marriage either because they've become unint...