Appreciation must go out to the mothers wh o gave birth to us and to the fathers (whether present or absent), who'v e helped in shaping our minds and sensibilities. Of course, we're in the heart of the Christmas Season, emotions are piqued and ready to be surprised by what ever good experiences are headed our way but, what are the true thoughts the majority of women are having at this time? Just a few weeks ago, I had the pleasure and was very much enthralled by a conversation I was having with a few of my girl friends. Funny enough, every where I went after that occasion, I heard the buzzing of conversations of a similar nature or the exact issue. To make it clearer, the women I speak about hail from several different Caribbean countries and various professions. Their concerns are diverse and far reaching, and today I'm going to put it out there. By now, in this generation and time, women all around the world share the understanding that no one is perfect, ...