Believe it or not, I'll preface this article by permitting us all to liberate ourselves, through our fantasies. The point is... let's rid ourselves of the pretentious front, we'll never succeed being someone we're not. Hence, the reason why there are unhappy people walking our streets. Everyone has a different tolerance level for boredom but when it comes the the bedroom, boredom can never equate to being satisfied. What does this have to do with love- making? A lot! I'm pretty sure you've been in a relationship or is currently involved with a great person but the heat between the sheets is practically non- existent. As a result, your body is left unsatisfied and very disappointed. The effects can even hamper the relationship through frustration and unless you communicate the kind of spice you want in sex, then your desires will only remain desires, unfulfilled.