Life isn't always the way it seems when people are in relationships. 'Faking it til you make it', has sugar coated the growing pains and deceived a lot of people in love. Of course it's done that way to cushion each other's feelings but Ladies, the tension in your neck and the ache in your spine isn't going to disappear on its own. I'm not talking about the bottle of Ibuprofen in your medicine chest nor the jar of Icy Hot on your bed side table. I'm addressing the much needed mind blowing sex, millions of women all over the world are lacking. Right across the spectrum of relationships, both men and women are frustrated by this 'failed orgasm' shadow. I pity the women who carry the pent up fever and really feel it for the men who aren't very knowledgeable in how to get her there. Hopefully, all that is going to end today because I am choosing to educate us all on how to reach the ultimate climax and change some bedroom perspectives....